Obesity Vs. Anorexia
After a long summer vacation, i never write anything here, i pretty much want to do come back! Thus, i do some research, take a moment to think about the perfect topic that i should write for the comeback! ( believe me, it takes a week!) Well, while browsing other people’s blog, friendster or even magazine i prefer to relates anything that i have read with myself. For now, the “obesity” itself makes me crazy, and sometimes thinking of that issues may ruined my whole day!
First, what is Obesity? What is Anorexia? I prefer explain it in simple ways:
cute+chubby = fat = obesity = Problems!
slim+skinny+Thin = Haggard= Problem!
Since, both situation will or will not create problem, Thus, what are the solution for that? What is actually girls, young lady or even women thinks about that? How this two issues can actually affect them?
One again! Just take it simple and easy? Who want to be fat? Why you eat too many food? Do you ever do some exercise? I dont think that this question is still relevent. For me, i prefer this kind of question Are you willing to scarifice your beauty over food? What is you purpose of being thin? Do you ever think of wearing tight dress or fancy t-shirt? Aha! that question is left unsaid! Yes, we do have answers for that question, but normally we will keep that anwers to ourself only! Refer to myself, i prefer to hide all the anwers to myself rather that share it with my best buddy.
Women vs. women! girls vs.girls! Yes, we are friends! Yes she is my best buddy! Oh really, she’s like a sister to me, but truely..she’s still my competitor. i want to be better than her, i want to be more beautiful than her, i want to be slimmer than her, i want to wear a great dress compared to her! Yeah, this is the answer that i get while doing a survey, listen mouth-to-mouth story, see & watch melodramatic so called “perfect couple” story! My reality-based story is actually what had i going through in my past few years, what i have listened or what i have read!. But this is just my personal opinion, my experience, since we humans being actually have different types of character, behavior and so on. ( Yeah, i am shy person, rarely have fun till midnight, have to comeback home before twelve, never have boyfriend until my third year in campus and bla..bla..bla..) Daaa! the subject is no me..just to proof that different thing will or might happen to another people!
Back to the issue! What girls are so sad/down/demotivated/unconfident/ low self-esteem when they are fat??? Expecially for non-married lady? Well the answer MIGHT be:-
-If i’m fat, i cannot wear tight, fancy, sexy dress like any other girls. I can only wear baggy pants, loose t-shirt! I will not look pretty!
-If i’m fat, everybody will make fun of me! Staring at me like i’m an alien! Laugh at me, or even worst call me ” fatty”
-If i’m fat, i’m look ugly
-If i’m fat, its hard for me to find a boyfriend. I will not look attractive, i will not look pretty, no boys will asking for a date, movies, also prompt! I’ll be isolated, and tremendously sad! I’ll be lonely forever!
-If i’m fat, i’ll only sit at home! I cannot join a marathon, i’m too shy to hike a mountain, i’m too shy to dance, i definately not going to any parties (farewell, prompt, wedding or what so ever) Again, too much to given up! I’ll be isolated, Again! Again!
- If i’m fat, other girls will underestimate me, they will show off the assets, their boyfriend, their teddy bears ( their boyfriend gave to them), i can never join the group, (so called “hot girls” gang). I’m so jeles! I have nothing!
Yeah! thats the reason! reason! explaination. Assumption! Whatever we want to think! Thus what else we can compare this “Obesity” matters, with Anorexia? Okeh! Anorexia is a desease! Agree! It is consider as eating disoder, but the point is. do we care? If we want to ask any teenagers girl .. Which one do you prefer? Obesity or Anorexia? I think 100% will choose “Anorexia”. ( As i said…” i think”) yeah! if you as me, my anwers will be Anorexia also! Why? Because, being Ms.Fatty, to much to loose, too many things to sacrifies, too many problems will occured. Yeah, wno knows that Anorexia deasease, for sure will have a affect to the person who have it. But, Anorexia’s people can still wear a tight pants right? Or wear mini skirts? They can wear better outfit to promt? Hurm… Thus, this is quiet imbalance dicsussion. Since i’m lack of experience of Anorexia’s Victim, i cannot comment much on that!
In a nutshell, what ever might happen next, in women’s life will definately affect “their own life” not husband, not boyfriend, not siblings or what ever. It will totally affect “themselves” “alone”. Is hard to be a lady, women.. however being a women, i something we could ever imagine! Great! Enjoy! Unpredictable, Fun! but we have to pay it with huge sacrifies, high responsibility, great judgement and most important thing high, higher, highest confidence!
p/s: Thanks to Allah, for this great opportunities for me to learn, learn, learn about life, better human being wanna be!
